Posts by Brian

Be Yourself

The idea of being someone else can sound great, especially when you are on social media viewing posts that get a lot of attention. However, the images that many people post are just that – images.  Further, we praise celebrities based on material possessions, forgetting that those items don’t hold any true value, as they don’t add to your character.   Over the last few years, I’ve realized that no one’s brand should ever be bigger than yours. It’s great to admire others, but there is a difference between admiration and idolizing. Being the best version of you will always get
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Weather The Storm

  Time waits for no one and if you really want something you have to go for it, especially when it seems impossible to obtain. The fear of failure will always be present and second guessing yourself at times is a normal reaction, but you have to understand that fear can’t defeat you unless you allow it to have a place in your life. Being confident in your abilities is the key to overcoming doubt.   The way you view your situation is important because many people let their current situation get the best of them and stop caring about
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Follow Your Dreams

Have you ever felt like giving up on everything due to the pressures of everyday life? I can speak from experience and say I felt the same way at one point. Life can get extremely stressful when you are chasing your dreams. Things don’t always go according to plan. Life can change without any warning, leaving you in a negative situation. You have to constantly motivate yourself to do more every waking moment. Life is precious and time is the one thing you can’t get back. I have learned over the years that wasted time can be your biggest regret,
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You Can Do It Too!

  You can do it too, but you first have to work on your craft. People want success without working for it. Nothing in life is given but earned through hard work and dedication. You can’t have an attitude of entitlement feeling that based on who you are should receive instant success. I released my first book in 2012 and since then I have been working on my brand and understanding what life is all about. You have to be transparent if you want to help others. Many of us are drawn to each other based on how we relate
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Time To Let Go

Life moves on and so should you. I know it’s easy to say that when you haven’t gone through the same ordeal as someone else. The reality of the situation is we all get over things in our own way. Some of us are not as strong as we look, it’s a mindset that you have to adapt when trying to overcome hardship. Some experiences in your life will be difficult and feel impossible to overcome, but you have to learn to leave the past in the past and embrace your future. Everything is not for everybody, you can lose
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The Desire To Win

The desire to succeed can motivate you in different ways and inspire others around you in the process, my reason for saying that is based on the definition of success, which is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose, with that being said the key word is PURPOSE. You can’t accomplish anything without having a purpose, when you know where you are going no one can stop you. Never try to be someone else, instead love yourself and be who you were purpose to be while walking in your purpose. When you walk without a purpose you can make life
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What is a relationship?

     When getting to know a person you notice the positive and negative aspects of a persons character. These things are usually discovered through conversation and interaction over the course of time. The most important thing is communication, because you will notice things that will ultimately let you know what type of person you are dealing with. Timing is everything prior to getting in a relationship. If you and the other person is not looking for anything serious you should stay friends until you both know what you truly want. Many people get in relationships because they feel it’s
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New Day, New Opportunity

     When you start your day what is the first thing you think about? Is it how great you are going to be today? or the fact that you rather go back to sleep and do absolutely nothing the rest of the day? Many questions can be asked, but the first thing I do when I wake up is thank God for another day.  I use my waking up as motivation, knowing that a new day brings new opportunities to be great. Many people don’t believe that they have the potential to be great and accomplish amazing things. If
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